Tag Archives: marriage

I’ll Marry Who I want

Post Views = 10572 It is now almost evident that I have come of age. Age to get married. Not that it is your business to know, but I say so because there are forces involved in this affair, forces with seemingly good but destructive agenda. In this regard, I have been put in a tight position, bearing little or …

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Marriage is a trap

Post Views = 8108 When Zach touched his wife, she didn’t respond as he’d expected. Instead, she asked him, “ Zach, what do you think you’re doing?” This happened one night five years ago. And for a man, such a question can emit varied feelings, ranging from silence, anger to confusion. If you’re a man, you must have come across …

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The money-milking machine called Ruracio

Post Views = 4915Conversations occur in swahili but have been loosely translated Among the Kikuyu, there is a custom they call Ruracio. Most communities have it, only that the execution varies from one to the other. And this is why Ruracio is more pronounced than others. Ruracio is a dowry payment ceremony where the groom, with other able men, visits …

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Why you don’t need to test drive

Post Views = 2679After my piece on celibacy and following the decision to become celibate myself, I have become inclined to support those who make the decision to stay celibate or in extension those who support the cause. Celibacy can be one hell of a lifestyle considering the weight it lifts off our shoulders from the pressure we are mostly …

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Why can’t God give me a good wife?

Post Views = 4747We sit on a bed. Something that could make a decent 3 by 6 bed, with a new mattress on it. The bed sheet and the duvets are tucked away neatly and placed where the pillow is supposed to rest, meaning the owner doesn’t have one. Tucking beddings is the easiest way of coping with organization if …

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Of Deputy governor and mistress(es)

Post Views = 7279 The water is swirling and sharks circling ready to devour him, tear him into a thousand pieces. The sharks in this case are extra generous and even willing to share their meals with other creatures of the sea. The have sent word across the deep ends of their territories for friends and foes alike to join …

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