Being too fast and weak in bed ? so what is the solution to premature ejaculation?

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Every woman dreams of being with a lover whose passion is so intense and body is so strong that he can last and last and last. Every man wants to be able to fulfill those dreams. He wants to know that he can have intercourse for as long as he wishes, bringing his partner to climax after climax. It certainly sounds wonderful, but is it possible?


I am sorry to say that the language used in this article may be a little bit obscene and for the sensitive readers it may be a hard hit on the face. By swaying away from the right diction to suit the needs of the article, only then could I express the content of the article to the best. Take no offense in my dirty language. Hope you enjoy the article..thank you!


Each lady longs for being with a darling whose energy is so exceptional and body is strong to the point that he can last and last and last. Each man needs to have the capacity to satisfy those fantasies. He needs to realize that he can engage in sexual relations the length he wishes, conveying his accomplice to a great many orgasms. . It certainly sounds wonderful, but is it possible?

I understand how a woman feels when she’s in bed with someone she loves. On a professional basis, I’ve listened to incalculable ladies discuss their lovemaking. Yet significantly additionally uncovering in a few ways are the hours I have gone through discussing sex with ladies companions, every one of them letting their hair down and coming clean about what they like and what they need.

Given that there is no school where virgins can learn love making, I think a fellow who goes too quick on you has no idea that he is too quick on that punany of yours. He is not egotistical, just uninformed. Having intercourse doesn’t fall into place without a hitch like walking. I think we require a school to teach this thing.

I have not been a love-making psychologist, but I have been a marriage, relationship and related stuff psychologist. It is not that I don’t have the basics of how to teach a man and her lady how bedroom science should be learnt, it is only that it is a hard subject to deal with. People don’t necessarily come out in the light and confess that they are confronted by such bedroom monsters.

So what do they do? Men are proud psychos who think they can solve even the monstrous problems that affect their life and that of their loved ones. Things like premature ejaculation, loose, short or feeble penis are common problems that men face. I mean it is normal, just like a disease or an abnormality.

A ton of our men have such a large number of sex-related issues. What’s more, such issues stay unaddressed, slaughtering the respect toward oneself. There is nothing as exasperating like coming to a climax a couple of seconds after you drive into her pussy and throw up from your penis, leaving her feeling nothing at all.

Shortcomings like bed weakness have been consistent and humiliating factors in men’s lives. They do not only have an effect to men alone but also to their counterparts. When your man does not satisfy you in bed honestly that is a major problem..

Ladies need men who can eat their pussy like it was something truly pleasant. They need a hard dick that can screw her for quite a long time and hours. It is regularly said that when a man is a lion in bed, regardless of the possibility that he is a cheater the lady scarcely departs as she comprehends what the man does to her in bed. Those are not my presumptions or something. That is to say, would you favor a frail dedicated man or a capable man who is cheater? If I were a young lady I would simply strive for the fellow who makes me cry in bed, one who makes my pussy smoking hot and one who can fulfill my sexual cravings. Isn’t that so young ladies?

So what happens when such a problem creeps into your relationship? Many men are not able to come out clean with their partners and confess that he has a godamm big problem. He has no problem with doing sex because he can ride her girlfriend, donate the sperms and just walk away. Ouch! Of course he will feel like a jackass afterwards for not being that great bedroom performer who smokes her girl’s pussy.

The significant victimized person however is the young lady who is left with unsatisfied passionate longings for good sex. It is easy to go out and have a sensational sex with another guy who can bang really well.

Give me a chance to stop the dawdling and face the issue. Ladies have been the ones to move in the open to express their dismay about how their men are frail in bed. I have heard ladies gripe about harsh men who appear to be uninterested in what a lady truly needs or men who couldn’t see it all through. Anyhow I must let you know, I have never heard a lady gripe around a man who could offer her whatever she wanted. Better believe it, things are different now and men may not be solid as they used to be years prior. They are no more that strong.

Each and every issue has an answer some place. The following is a specimen of a protestation sent to my inbox in some web journal I work with, where I compose affection articles.

 “Dear Dr.Love,

My sweetheart never completely fulfills me in bed. At whatever point we engage in sexual relations he moves over and gets up when he’s done! He essentially fulfills himself and doesn’t appear to be pestered whether he satisfies me by any means.

Likewise, he is speedy – we’re talking a couple of minutes – and he knows I can’t climax that quick. Is it accurate to say that he is sluggish or would he say he is simply being childish?”

 From the above complaint I think you have a gist of what I am talking about. Over the years I have been doing research on how to deal with premature ejaculation, just to enhance my sexual life. There is a plethora of resources most of which suggest almost similar solutions. It is not my job to list all those answers on this article. Then what will be your job?

From the rundown I figured out how to get a grip of what I thought may be useful. These are:

  •  Tackling the issue with your partner by talking it out and figuring out courses how to all in all recuperate the issue,
  • Masturbation.
  •  Working out. Pelvic floor exercises eg kegel work outs. etc

These three choices can’t crash your endeavors so long as you take after the directions of handling both.

Also read: The other woman in your husband’s life. 

Best choice.

The best option is to sit down and figure things out. As a woman you need to express how you feel about the sex you do. If you don’t get satisfied let him know that so that next time you appear in his picture while he is fucking you. At the same time you seek to know what might be the problem. If there is a problem let your man share it and then both of deliberate on how to solve it.

When you and your accomplice have your discussion, it is critical to discuss your needs, however it is likely significantly more vital to discuss her needs. Give her a chance to let you know what she needs and what she doesn’t need. Does anything make her uncomfortable? Is there anything she fears? Listen deliberately to her replies, and don’t accept anything. You may be shocked to find that you know less about your accomplice than you might suspect. This is a radiant chance to express your minding and grow more closeness, and I urge you to exploit it.

As man your respect toward oneself ought to be reestablished after you impart things up and consent to work the issue out altogether like a couple. More often than not premature ejaculation is a consequence of low self-esteem. It has nothing to do with the penis or stuff. . The excitement that builds up when you know that you gonna tear some pussy apart makes you panic and ruin things up. The mess is that you will ejaculate way too fast than expected as your attention is just built around the excitement part leaving out the essential role of the activity itself.



Don’t give me that frowning face! Masturbation is one of the healthiest exercises that a man can take part in and enhance both his wellbeing by lessening the possibilities of being a casualty of prostate growth and enhancing his sexual life as it may help him last more in bed. At the point when done as such well over the long run, it builds possibilities of being better in bed.

Masturbation may not be religious and being a solid professor I don’t advocate for it to such an extent. Logically it has been demonstrated to have less or no impact on human sexuality. So don’t be concerned that your sexuality will change once you begin stroking off. On the off chance that accomplished for the right reasons then it can be truly helpful. Again it is addictive and a method for sex idealism.

The trap is dependably on the How and not on the how often. On this segment you need to peruse more to get the applicable headings on the best way to accomplish great results with masturbation.

 Working out your pc muscles

Couple of individuals really think about this great trick. Working out your pc muscles aides have control over your ejaculation. It is the best capacity that each man charms to have. Again this incorporates a progression of courses of action that need time and persistence. So long as you are doing it right you can’t go wrong. You ought to have control over your penis and be the champion of your own sex.

 Sex is psychological

Sexual performance is not a mystery or something to be feared. Sexual functioning is a physiological process, just like breathing or sleeping-it just feels better. Like most other physiological processes, your sexual performance can be understood, altered, and improved. And that’s exactly what you are going to do, starting today.

Talk to your partner. Tell her what you’re up to, and don’t withhold anything. Give her as much information as possible. Let her know why this is important to you. Tell her what your goals are, being sure to explain the benefits you can foresee for the relationship. It is very important that she knows you are doing this for both of you. Finally, tell her how important it is for you to have her support in making your relationship and love life work.

The ability to control one’s penis -to literally stay up all night-is not the exclusive domain of Eastern masters. There are plenty of men who have already learned to control their erections in ways you would find hard to imagine. These men can have multiple orgasms without losing their erections (two orgasms, three orgasms, or even more if they choose).They drive their women wild hour after hour, night after night. They’re doing it right now-and they’ll still be doing it long after you’ve gone to sleep.

These men are not sexual supermen. They are normal, average guys. Some are young, some are old, some are tall, some are small, some are thin, some are overweight, some are bashful, and some are bold. Some have large penises, some have small penises, some have thick penises, and some have slender penises. Some have sex once a week, and some have sex almost every day. The only thing these men all have in common is the desire to please themselves and pleasure their partners, and the discipline to master a simple technique.

Just do some more research on how you can control your penis. There is a lot than my article can hold, so take your time and invest your energy in learning what might make your love life happy.

A Man Who Controls His Penis is A Man in Demand. As far as I can tell, there are two sorts of men on the planet: men who control their penises and men who are controlled by their penises. A man who can’t control his penis is a man who lives in apprehension. He fears having his deficiency found, not having the capacity to have a fantastic sexual coexistence, and not having the capacity to satisfy the lady he adores.

For every one of us-male and female-the single most noteworthy obstruction to sexual joy is apprehension of our own equipment. My objective is to start destroying some of that trepidation. A healthier association with one’s penis can break down numerous basic execution nerves by giving a man a genuine feeling of control over his own particular working.


 My final statement.

Indeed a lady who adores a man profoundly can feel baffled and unfulfilled by his sexual restrictions. Lamentably, numerous ladies liken sex with bargain and penance. Couple of ladies consistently encounter the sort of lovemaking they long for, and even less trust its really conceivable. That is the awful news.

Kindly don’t get offended. I realize that you know a great deal about sex. Everybody would, whether they like to or not. As it would turn out, its a subject that is difficult to dodge these days. Turn on the TV, connect to the radio, open a book, go to the motion pictures, flip through a magazine . . . what do you see? Sex, sex, sex. From Howard Stern to Melrose Place, from Donahue to pay -every perspective, we’re getting instructed by osmosis. Anyway that doesn’t mean its a decent instruction.

Knowing a lot about sex is not the same as being sexually fulfilled. Knowing a lot about sex doesn’t always change what happens in the bedroom. No matter how much you’ve heard, read, and seen, sex can still feel like the greatest mystery in the world. No one likes to feel, insecure about something as important as sex, but the truth is, at some point everyone feels as though everyone else on the planet is making love more often and more exquisitely than they are. Sometimes it feels as though all of this sexual education has only made us more unsure.

I care about relationships and I care about sex. We need to have good sex in our relationships. Good sex brings us closer together.  It strengthens intimacy and cements the bond. It can even save a marriage. We can’t try to hide from this. Quite the contrary-we need to do everything we can to celebrate the importance of a rich sexual connection.

Also read: My open letter to the president of Kenya.

-photo credits:nypost , menintalk


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  1. quite a nice article. sex education is crucial in relationships.

  2. mmmmhh….Dr love apo uko sawa,i concere with u with the little experience i have,sharing feelings n toking,i mean communicating in a relationship is the base of a growing or “moving” relationship….

    • I concur with you too Jacy, tho my main topic was nt how to keep rships strong bt how to deal with bedrum matters…

  3. I realy like the article, sex education is very rear to be taught out there, but for you, you had that gut to bring it out professionally..,big up boss

  4. pls Dr I have the same problem am not that good on bed pls what should I do?

  5. Dr i have same problem and I tried to put a stop to it but things are just going where ward ….so what is next DC

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